Anonymous asked: what is the biggest problem you and your boyfriend encounter? how do you handle fights? lately me and my boyfriend have been fighting a lot and I am not sure what to do about it.
LOL. To be perfectly honest with you, the biggest problem we encounter is that I have a much higher sex drive than him. I am almost always horny and want to have sex very often (like… everyday if I could), but he does not.
We do fight though and argue, but in the end we both know we love each other very much, so nothing really comes between us. They are always little things, and our fights always end before we go to bed.
Arguing is normal though, and actually I’d be worried if a couple NEVER fought. However, you have to remember to keep your calm and be mature. Watch what you say, you don’t want to regret it. Be constructive about it, argue to make things better. If that makes sense.
I suggest just sitting down and talking, no distractions, just you two. Bring up how you have been fighting a lot and want to get to the bottom of it so you can fix the problem. Talk about EVERYTHING that’s been on your mind, and ANYTHING that’s been bothering you. Being completely honest and open is the key to a truly happy and successful relationship. You should never be afraid to express yourself or share your emotions/feelings. If you can figure out what the root cause of the problems you’ve been having recently, then you can resolve it and feel much better (:
And remember, arguments can lead to great make up sex, so it isn’t all bad, right?